### The chapter of introduction
my fav too.
one of my fav quote from RUMI:
“You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean, in a drop.”
Agree with your the point 2 about the section 'How the chapter changed me'
We care abo others' feelings too much so that ignore our feelings in heart 😄
Same here, it is too hard to focus on myself most of times, but i'm gonna try my best this year.
Dave come on
** Places we go when things are uncertain or too much**
I decide to do nothing when i process overwehlem in future. The restaurant case taught me that we only need some time to get-released from the capture of overwhelm , though I know it is not a not way to handle the specific thing which let us overwehlmed. At least, by do-nothing for a while we could relax our mind to cope with it later. As a student majored in Pharmacy, I have too much medical classes, when it turns to exam month i have to be absorbed in my textbooks,chemical structures etc. In my first years of college, i was stressed by tons of exams. At that time i can feel those stressors are depleting my power which is too horrible for a med-student 🤣 (beacuse i have exams acquire full energy). Those days i found a way to coping with them: go out of the library and do-nothing or just do entarining things like take a bike walk, this is really helpfull to get back .
1.stress occurs when we evaluate the situational demand is over than our capability of coping with.
2.our emotional reaction is mostly related to our cognitive assessment of whether we can cope with the situation raher then our body's react.
3.overwelmed means our life is unwrapping quicker than our nervous system and psyche are managing it.
4.the best cure for overwhelmed is do-nothing,no-agenda,leave-it-alone.
1.a body of research- a growing body of research
2.mental depeltion - narrative of emotional and mental depletion- روھىي خوراش
3.take a toll
2.detrimental- harmful : poor sleeping hours are detrimental to liver and other main organs.
3.narrative-give a dtailed account of :
4.deplete-depleted-depletion : the depletion of oil caused rising-prices in the region.
expressions and phrase
4.a speck of light
3.frenetic -frenetic activity
6.reaper 收割者/ 死神（grim reaper）
7.trait - a distinguishing feature of ur personal nature
😃 updated on Feb，27 😃
1.some examples of vulnerability from my life： presentation without prepare\ talk about my feelings\ apologize for my misunderstandings
2.I learned that being vulnerable isn't being weak, It is being brave.
Wow, I am surprised by how much you love poetry. Recently I picked up English poetry too. Idyllic ones are really refreshing my thoughts after a long time concentrated study.
hhhh, I used to write some like years ago.
Now i am enjoying the lyrics of Bob Dylan.
Mine is "You are the sun of the world, but why are you so dark in heart "
btw do u have any booklet of his pems by chance
** Places we go when we compare**